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Couples

Ideas and advice for bringing more play and connection into your relationship.

About the couples section

These articles are for partners who want more play, closeness or simply more conversation. Some are about toys, many are not: a good evening often starts with a talk, a massage or a game rather than a product. Everything here assumes consent, comfort and the freedom for either of you to say “not today”.

If you have never brought a toy into your relationship, begin with how to bring up sex toys with your partner, then look at twelve couple-friendly ideas. For evenings at home, date night ideas at home has plans that need nothing more than a free evening. Living in different cities? Toys for long-distance relationships explains how app-controlled toys work.

Harder conversations

Not every article is light. Mismatched libidos looks at what couples can do when one partner wants intimacy more often than the other, and bondage for beginners puts safety, safe words and aftercare before any equipment. For festivals and anniversaries, see our Diwali gift ideas and Karwa Chauth ideas.

When you want to browse together, the couples collection and our guide to couples sex games are good places to look. Orders arrive in a plain box with free delivery and cash on delivery.

A note on consent

Every idea in this section works only when both partners want it. Agree on what is on the table before you start, check in during, and talk afterwards about what you enjoyed. A “no” or a “not yet” is a complete answer, and it is never a reason to buy something and surprise a partner with it. If you are newly married, our first night guide and intimacy in an arranged marriage take things at a gentle pace.