Quick answer: water-based lubricant is lube made mainly of water, and it is the safe default: it works with every toy material, including silicone, and with latex condoms, and it rinses off with water. Silicone lube lasts much longer and suits shower play or long sessions, but it can damage silicone toys, so use it on its own or with glass, steel and hard plastic toys.
Lubricant is one of the simplest ways to make intimacy more comfortable and more fun. But the shelf is full of options, and the wrong type can even damage your toys. Here is what you need to know.
Water-based lubricant
Best for: everyday use, all toys, sensitive skin.
Water-based lube is the all-rounder. It feels natural, washes off easily, does not stain sheets and is safe with every toy material, including silicone. The only downside is that it can dry out over time; simply add a little more or a few drops of water.
Silicone-based lubricant
Best for: long-lasting glide, massage, use in the shower.
Silicone lube lasts much longer and stays slippery in water. A little goes a long way. However, do not use silicone lube with silicone toys, because it can make their surface sticky or damage it over time. It also takes soap and water to wash off.
Flavoured, warming and tingling lubes
These are usually water-based with added flavour or ingredients that create a warm or cool sensation. They are fun for foreplay and couples, but if you have sensitive skin, try a small amount on your inner arm first and avoid them for internal use if they irritate.
How to choose
| If you want… | Choose |
|---|---|
| One lube for everything | Water-based |
| To use it with a silicone toy | Water-based |
| The longest-lasting glide | Silicone-based (not with silicone toys) |
| Something playful for two | Flavoured or warming |
A few safety tips
- Avoid oils, lotions and petroleum jelly with latex condoms: they can weaken latex.
- Choose lubes without strong fragrances if you are prone to irritation.
- Store lube with the cap closed, away from heat, and check the expiry date.
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