Many couples in India think in Hindi, joke in Hinglish and then freeze when it is time to talk about intimacy, because the only words they know are English ones from a product page or crude slang from school. Neither feels right when you are lying next to your husband or wife and trying to suggest something new.
This guide gives you a middle path: the Hindi and Hinglish words people actually use for common intimate products, what each item is in simple language, and a few easy lines to start the conversation. It is written for married and committed couples, and everything here is for adults aged 21 and over.
First, the honest truth about the words
Hindi does not have old, everyday words for most sex toys, because most of these products are fairly new to Indian homes. In real life, people simply say the English word in a Hindi sentence: “vibrator le aayein?” That is completely normal, and it is often the least awkward choice. Where a natural Hindi word exists, such as maalish ka tel for massage oil or hathkadi for handcuffs, it can feel warmer and more playful. Use whichever feels like your own voice.
The names, in one table
| English name | What people say in Hindi or Hinglish | What it is, simply |
|---|---|---|
| Sex toy / adult toy | सेक्स टॉय, अडल्ट टॉय; politely अंतरंग उत्पाद (antrang utpaad, intimate products) | Any product made for pleasure or intimacy |
| Vibrator | वाइब्रेटर, or कंपन वाला मसाजर (kampan wala massager) | A body-safe massager that buzzes; small ones are called bullets |
| Lubricant (lube) | ल्यूब, लुब्रिकेंट, or चिकनाई वाला जेल (chiknai wala gel) | A gel that reduces friction and makes touch comfortable |
| Massage oil | मालिश का तेल (maalish ka tel) | Scented oil for a slow, relaxing massage |
| Cock ring / vibrating ring | रिंग, वाइब्रेटिंग रिंग | A soft stretchy ring he wears; the vibrating kind buzzes for both partners |
| Male masturbator / stroker | मेल स्ट्रोकर, मास्टरबेटर कप | A soft sleeve or cup for men, used alone or with a partner |
| Kegel balls | केगल बॉल्स; pelvic floor = पेल्विक फ्लोर की मांसपेशियाँ | Small weighted balls used for pelvic floor exercises |
| Blindfold | आंखों की पट्टी (aankhon ki patti) | A soft eye mask that heightens touch and sound |
| Handcuffs | हथकड़ी (hathkadi), usually soft or fur-lined | Light, playful restraints for consenting couples |
| Sex dice / card game | पासा (paasa), कार्ड गेम | Games with dares, questions or positions to break the ice |
| Lingerie | लॉन्जरी, नाइटी, बेबीडॉल | Special nightwear for a dress-up evening |
| Condom | कंडोम, also निरोध (nirodh) | Protection; use a water-based lube with it |
For a deeper explanation of each type, our guide to adult toys in India goes through every category, and the sex toy glossary explains 60 terms in plain English.
“Smart” couples equipment: app and remote toys
Some couples search for “IoT” or “smart” equipment. These are simply toys that connect to a phone app by Bluetooth, or come with a small remote. In Hinglish, people say “app wala toy” or “remote wala”. One partner wears or holds the toy and the other controls the speed, in the same room or, with app toys, from another city. They are popular with couples who live apart for work. Our page on app-controlled sex toys explains how the apps work and what to check about privacy before you pair one.
How to bring it up, in your own words
The words matter less than the moment. Pick a relaxed time, not the middle of an argument and not straight after a long day. Then keep it light and make it about the two of you. A few lines couples find easy:
- “Maine ek cheez dekhi online, kya hum saath mein try karein?” (I saw something online, shall we try it together?)
- “Ek massage oil le aaun? Is weekend aaram se time nikalte hain.” (Shall I get a massage oil? Let’s make some slow time this weekend.)
- “Tumhe kya pasand hai, mujhe batao, main bhi bataungi.” (Tell me what you like, and I will tell you too.)
- “Agar tumhe theek na lage toh koi baat nahi.” (If it doesn’t feel right to you, that’s completely fine.)
That last line matters most. Agreement, or sahmati, has to come freely from both of you, every time. For scripts in English and tips for awkward moments, read our guide on how to talk about sex with your partner, and for a gentle first step together see a couples guide to adding toys.
If one of you feels shy
Shyness is normal, especially in the first year of marriage or after years of never talking about it. Instead of naming a product, start with a feeling: “mujhe tumhare saath aur close feel karna hai” (I want to feel closer to you). Browse a page together on one phone, so neither of you has to say the words first. Start with the softest step, often a massage oil, and leave toys for later. If the answer is “not yet”, accept it warmly and try again another month. Pressure never builds closeness.
Reading an English product page
Product pages are written in English, and a few terms trip people up. Here is what they mean.
- Body-safe silicone: a smooth, non-porous material that is easy to clean. Look for it first.
- Water-based: a lube that washes off with water and is safe with every toy and with condoms.
- USB rechargeable: charges from a phone charger cable; no batteries to buy.
- IPX7 or waterproof: safe to wash under the tap and use in the shower.
- Whisper quiet: low noise, useful in a joint family or a flat with thin walls.
A first shopping list for couples
If you are new, three things cover most first nights: a lube, a massage oil or candle, and a game or a vibrating ring. On our shelves today, the Cronomasutra couples game is ₹499, the Clauzell silicone ring is ₹599 and Tasty Fruits Cherry lube is ₹899. Browse all toys for couples below.
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Frequently asked questions
What is a sex toy called in Hindi?
Most people simply say सेक्स टॉय or अडल्ट टॉय. A polite, formal phrase is अंतरंग उत्पाद (antrang utpaad), which means intimate products.
What is lube called in Hindi?
People usually say ल्यूब or लुब्रिकेंट. A descriptive phrase is चिकनाई वाला जेल (chiknai wala gel), a gel that makes things smooth.
Is it okay to use English words when talking to my partner?
Yes. Mixing Hindi and English is how most couples talk, and the English word is often less awkward than a formal Hindi one.
Do you sell products with Hindi instructions?
Most packaging is in English or several European languages. Our product pages explain use and care in simple English, and you can write to us with questions.
