Aftercare is the time after sex, especially intense or kink play, that partners spend looking after each other. It can be physical, such as water, a blanket, cleaning up or a massage, and emotional, such as cuddling, reassurance and talking about what felt good. What each person needs varies, so it is worth asking.
Why it matters when buying
Safety first after bondage: release restraints, check skin, wrists and ankles, and offer water. Aftercare is not only for kink; a few minutes of care after any sex helps both people feel close and looked after.
What to look for
- Water, a blanket and something to clean up with
- Time to talk about what worked and what did not
- A gentle massage oil or candle
Products that use this
Small things that help after play: a massage candle, a body oil and a toy cleaner. More in Lubes and intimate care.
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For simple physical and emotional ideas, and how to ask for it, read our full guide to aftercare after sex.