A wand massager is a large vibrator with a round, soft head on a long handle, first sold as a body massager. Its big motor gives strong, deep, rumbly vibration, used mainly for external stimulation, over clothing or directly on the vulva. Wands are powerful, so most people start on the lowest setting.
Why it matters when buying
Wands are the opposite of bullets: more power and a broader feel, but bigger, louder and harder to keep out of sight. If small toys feel too weak or too buzzy, a wand is often the answer.
What to look for
- A flexible neck so the head follows your body
- Several low settings, not just high power
- Rechargeable, so you are not tied to a socket
- A size and weight you can hold comfortably
Where to shop
We do not stock a classic wand right now. The nearest options are the larger lay-on and body massagers in Vibrators and massagers; our bullet vs wand comparison explains the difference.